A ‘hypersexxual’ woman who claims to have slept with 300 people is so addicted to carnal pleasure that she spends up to 5 hours a day having sexx or pleasuring herself.
24-year-old Nessa Jay, from Cromer, Norfolk, finds her addiction to sexx really hard to deal with and she is now having therapy to try to control it.
In an interview, she said: “I get sweaty palms, I feel angry and I need to satisfy myself if I don’t get at least five orgasms a day through sexx.”
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Nessa, who describes herself on Twitter as a ‘philosopher in sexx toys’ and ‘boinkologist’, reached her sexxual peak when she was 19 and admitted that she used to have sexx with ‘anyone I could’.
Nessa says she even used to meet sexxual partners in the supermarkets. ‘First I chat to them a bit to make sure they’re not dangerous or odd but once I know they are OK we go home together,’ she said.
She first discovered her thirst for sexx after losing her virginity at the age of 16 but now channels much of her sexxual energy in to her work as a sex toy reviewer.
She has tested 2,000 toys, and says the nature of her job helps her to deal with her cravings.
Variety is the spice of life: Nessa says she enjoys sexx with men and women and has also indulged in threesomes
‘I do not believe in sexx addiction or nymphomania. My sexx drive may be higher than some but it’s healthy because I’m positive about it and I’m also a trained sexx educator so I always make sure I have incredibly safe sexx and get tested regularly.
‘I’m perfectly healthy. I can’t change who I am or how I act and I wouldn’t want to,’ she added.
Nessa also says she’s enjoyed sexx with women and has had threesomes. However, while she has been polyamorous in the past, she has one partner at the moment.
Her sexxual appetite has in the past wreaked havoc with her friendships and many of her female friends have cut ties with her because they’re worried their boyfriends may be attracted to her.
However, speaking to Nick Conrad on BBC Radio Norfolk yesterday, she said: ‘It’s not all about sexx, sometimes I won’t have sexx with them for months. We go out and have dinner, go to the cinema.
‘I have slept with about thirty men in a month before but for years I had regular partners and that was it.
‘There is an emotional side, I believe strongly that people should have some form of emotional connection to enjoy sexx. It is often very intimate, I like physical connections and I have quite high standards actually.’
She has even forged a ‘network’ of sexxual partners but doesn’t want her nymphomania to define her and hopes people will view people with hypersexxuality as ‘normal’.
‘I live an average life which most people my age would live. I see friends, I write, I have hobbies; it’s pretty normal and pretty boring at times actually!